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Dear Mom
Dear Mom, I am so grateful you are my mom, and that you are still on the planet with us. I love you. I appreciate your wisdom, and respect your deep intuition and care. Thanks for giving me life, caring for me, walking me through the stages, getting me a toy after each of the many shots the doctor gave me. Thanks for helping me to be an individual by dressing me in cute and awkward clothes. Thanks for rescuing me from my bad dreams and night terrors. Thanks for unconditionally accepting me. Thanks for all the thousands of chats on the phone, and for still being able to give me a pep talk in a moment of adversity. Thanks for all of my birthday parties. Thanks for grandma and grandpa and … Read entire article »
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Parenting a Child with Bad Behavior
Your 6 year old is demanding a cookie before dinner. It starts with a request and escalates to a demand and all the way to a temper tantrum and a fit; screaming, yelling, threatening, holding the entire family hostage to the tirade. Everyone is angry and upset at each other. You’re having a disturbed dinner, often going to bed without resolution. The whole house is turned upside down. It has worked before many times! And it will work again! The child has gotten his way. Your 11-year-old makes everyone late for school or work every day. He dawdles, reads, plays on his computer, teases his older sister and the dog intermittently or goes back to bed instead of getting ready. When asked, told, ordered or even threatened, he acts as if he doesn’t … Read entire article »
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The Young Man with the Missing Hand Part 2
We are all missing something. Some of us are fortunate enough to know what it is and will be able to learn the lesson that lives in its place. It must be more painful for someone to know something is missing but to not know what it is. It must be even more painful to find out that the thing that you will soon be missing is your life. That is my not my story for now. The lesson that is mine to learn now is illusive and beautiful and revealing and true. The truth has a perfect juxtaposition of joy and sadness. I get to go on and bring more lessons to myself and others. That is my gift. And so, I walk forward in anticipation, trepidation, hope and glory … Read entire article »
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The Young Man with the Missing Hand Part 1
I saw one being, my angel walking in the mall yesterday. I was on the way in; he was on the way out. Or was he on the way in and I was on the way out. He wore a baseball Cap and all the attire. He wore baggy pants low and had a tight logo shirt on his showing his” six pack”. He was perfect. Perfect in every way. He had the look. He seemed confident, happy and perfectly content. He walked with a gait of strength. He walked proudly as if he had a left hand. His arm ended in a perfect shape, proudly displayed as if he had a hand. I imagine he never had a hand and yet he proceeded with elegant composure, directness and determination. If … Read entire article »
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When Things are Bad and you Have a Challenge
When things are bad or you have a challenge or even just a bad day you might tell yourself that it could always be worse. Look for the silver linings. Try this exercise: Make a list of all the items that are silver linings and gifts from your challenge. It may seem silly. It may seem fruitless. It may be hard. Simply state your challenge and all of the challenges it creates and all of the challenges that are created by the challenges that it creates. Describe how you feel about it. Cry, if you need to, or if you haven’t in a long time. It feels good afterwards. Here’s how I did it! State your challenge out loud: “I have a right hand that will not open up by itself due to arthritic issues in … Read entire article »
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Parenting our Teens; Helping them with their Stress- Part 1
This article is about how stress causes problems in our teens like self harm, eating disorders, depression, anxiety and suicide In case you don’t have time to read this, but want the information, here you go: Spend enough quality time with your teens and pre-teens so that you continue to know them and have healthy attachment through these difficult years. Have a clear view of what the parameters of “normal” are for your child, and pay attention to behaviors that call out for help. Sometimes these behaviors will seem like they are intended to alienate you, but don’t fall for it. Not being a therapist or a clinician, I see it as appropriate for me to refrain from description, diagnosis, analysis or suggested remedy for these challenges, and for the rise in their … Read entire article »
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Letter to Fathers
Please enjoy this article in Common Ground: An Open Letter to Fathers about Daughters and Men about Emerging Young Women Rick … Read entire article »
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Summer Camp Gives Many Gifts for Kids!
Enjoy this article from Common Ground about the benefits of summer camp. … Read entire article »
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Parenting and Your Child’s Musical Life
Enjoy this article in Common Ground about your child’s musical life! … Read entire article »
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